...on previous post.
I'm not sure I can edit a poll post (polls are weird like that I think) so my edit to add is going to happen here.
The irony isn't lost on me that a poll asking to see if I should open up a contentious issue for discussion, is generating discussion. Good. But. Please play nice (so far so good). I was aware that could happen of course but I trust that everyone will respect anyone's opinion (I know I am ridiculously naive at times, but I am also hopeful that if you choose to say something you'll be respectful).
I don't believe that just because something is "too hard" it shouldn't be open to a frank and lively discussion (what did I say about being naive?).
I'm off out (going to see "Into Darkness" yay!). I look forward to answering some of the comments when I get home *g*)